Avoid Resentment

By Fatoki Ifeoluwa

Devotional Reading: Trust in Him at all times, O people; Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us. Psalm 62:8

Resentment is the unpleasant way we feel when we are treated in ways we do not like. It is that negative emotional reaction to being mistreated. One way or the other, other intentionally or not, we may find ourselves treating people lesser than they deserve. We may even be at the receiving end too. Have you ever harboured resentment toward a person who attacked your character? We expect people to treat us with a certain amount of basic respect, and when they don’t, it’s quite natural to resent them.

Often attacked by his enemies, David had every excuse to resent others. Instead of doing that, however, he dealt with the situation in a more positive way. In Psalm 62, we learn how to handle resentment. David was well acquainted with unjust personal attacks (Psalm 62:3-4), but he made a conscious effort not to harbour resentments or build up anger. Instead, he expressed his feelings to God and reaffirmed his faith. Through prayer, he released the tension of the emotional stress and handed it over to God. David was confident that the Lord would bring about justice, care for his life, and safeguard his reputation (62:2).

Choosing this attitude can change your entire outlook on life. You do not need to be held captive by resentment toward others when they hurt you. Instead, trust in God the Rock, and nothing will be able to shake you.

Prayer and Confession
Dear Father, thank You for Your Word. I receive grace to let go of everyone who I have resented, and to trust You as my Stronghold in all situations.

Further Reading: Psalm 62